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Women's Safety: Dating Violence

Early Warning Signs

As a partner in a dating relationship, you may be in danger if the person you are dating...

  • Acts jealous and possessive

  • Won't let you have friends, or discourages you in any way from having friends

  • Checks up on you

  • Refuses to accept breaking up

  • Bosses you around

  • Insists on making all the decisions, without asking you for your input

  • Belittles you and your opinions

  • Frightens or threatens you in any way

  • Owns, uses, or talks a lot about weapons

  • Acts violently, getting into fights or getting angry quickly

  • Pushes, grabs, pinches or hits you

  • Pressures you for sex or gets serious about your relationship too fast

  • Uses alcohol and other drugs and pressures you to do the same

 

You may be a victim of domestic violence even if.........

  • you are not legally married to your partner

    you are in a gay or lesbian relationship

    you have formally or legally ended your relationship but your ex-partner continues to behave in an abusive manner toward you

    you are not living with your partner

  • your partner abuses someone else in your household, such as a parent, child or pet

Sources:

American District Telegraph: Avoiding Teen Dating Violence Security Tips <http://www.adt.com/divisions/residential
/security_tips/avoiding_teen_dating_violence.cfm
>

Information Guide For Abused Women in Maine. Lisa Pohlmann, Skeek Frazww, Merril Cousin. 5th edition. 1997. Page 5.

 

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